Questions are wonderful!! Questions open our mind and our heart to new levels of awareness. Questions support our steps toward growth, healing, and change! They give us something more to reach for and more things to consider as we reach where we are going. Questions enliven our innocence. They also solidify our wisdom. While we may think questions bring us answers, the truth is as i have discovered, the answer is always within the question!
How do we know when it’s time to leave a place, an experience, or a situation? One sure sign is that you are asking the question! Chances are by the time you ask the question, you already know the answer!! If you are asking if you should leave, here are a few more questions you may want to consider. How does being where you are make you feel?
What is it that you desire to feel? What is the experience that you hope to have if you stay?
Is there another place that you can have a better experience? Does having a better experience depend on anyone else?
Why have you given someone else control of your power? Your joy? How can you give to yourself what your expecting from someone else? Why havent you done it up until now?
Very often the question we must ask ourselves is not “Is it time for me to leave?” Rather, the question is “How can i stay here and create a better experience for myself? “An even better question is “Is being where i am worth the effort it takes to stay?”
Maybe in the past, you have been waiting for someone to make something happen to make your experience better. Start now uncovering any fears, resistance or unwillingness to making it happen for yourself.